minseok-tea:

i don’t think a lot of people realize exactly how much idols give up on a daily basis just to keep doing what they’re doing for us i mean minseok is 25 right now and my cousin who’s a few days older than him just got married and is about to have a baby like these people aren’t just giving us their talents and time they’re giving us their youth and life bc people like jonghyun and jinki’s age are starting families and getting married and finally settling down with jobs while idols are missing holidays with their families and are hardly ever allowed to rest and it’s all for the fans so i don’t ever want to hear muderous outcries about what idol leaves whichever group because we’re only their fans and they deserve to have a life too

at the end of the day our job is to support them not control them and i think it’s time we take note of just how much our favorite groups/people are sacrificing to make us happy